In short, oneitis refers to men who obsess over a single, specific woman. Oneitis is an old concept harking back to the very beginning of pick-up and manosphere (check The Game, The Mystery Method and David DeAngelo). The tendency for an individual to pedestalize one woman and feel like she is “the one” and it’s either he gets her, or he is desperate

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The Secret to Relationship Power: Don’t Need Her

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